I often laugh about the time my friend called me a stuffer and herself a blower. She was referring to how different we are in how we deal with things.  She is the outspoken type that speaks up letting people know how she feels instantly. I am more the type to hold hurts and frustrations inside choosing to deal with them alone. Either way in itself is not always the right way to handle things. Stuffers can easily hold misunderstandings, hurts, and frustrations inside until you are a powder keg ready to explode or allow them to cause discouragement or resentment.  Blowers can lose their tempers and say things in…